Ask HN: Do you regret using Social Networking apps?

I have the impression that even the owners of the apps have lost control of the algo and that it's really being detrimental to people's lives

7 points | by julienreszka 14 hours ago

7 comments

  • pavithecase 14 hours ago
    I have stopped using most soc-networking sites mainly because everything is endless ragebait. The human brain tends to focus more on negative feelings than positive ones and algos sure know how to optimize that for their own profits. Not to mention it creates a warped sense of view of humanity and seeing demons in people when there is none.
    • chistev 9 hours ago
      And it can make you feel inadequate
  • mikewarot 3 hours ago
    I regret that we don't have sufficiently strong operating systems. I don't know what I could have done differently over the past 40 years to have changed that, I doubt there is anything. This is, in my estimation, the root cause of much of the grief we now suffer with the Internet in general.

    Because we can't run our own servers without substantial risks, almost everyone is forced into the walled gardens where network effects make it feasible to economically run the servers, and the administrative staff to keep them running, and somewhat secure. This provides the honeypot that then draws in advertisement and all the ills that go with it, as we're not the customers, we're the product.

    I would hope that we can collectively get our security act together, which will as a byproduct make it easy for everyone to run their own servers without risk. But that's always been 20 years off, like fusion power. Everyone seems to think that Linux is good enough, which it isn't, but here we are. 8(

  • chistev 9 hours ago
    I'm just going to copy paste a comment I made in a different thread.

    One problem for me about leaving social media is that it limits my chances of getting updates about jobs, and if I start a business, social media is a good way of promoting the business. I wish I was in a financial position where I didn't have to bother about this.

    I've been limiting my use of social media (aside Reddit and HN) for almost two weeks now and I've been reading books and doing other things with my time rather than consuming content that isn't beneficial to me.

    Check out the Wikipedia article - The Shallows

    """

    The Shallows: What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains. The book claims research shows "online reading" yields lower comprehension than reading a printed page. The Shallows was a finalist for the 2011 Pulitzer Prize in General Nonfiction.

    """

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Shallows_(book)

    • eMpHaSe 8 hours ago
      100% agree. My life would be better without it. But as a matter of fact, I just use it half of the time as a marketing channel.
  • richstokes 4 hours ago
    Stopped using them when I realized I had stopped seeing posts from my actual friends and family.

    It’s mostly endless reels and ads now and I have to scroll for way too long before I see a post from someone I’m connected to/friends with. Bored of it all.

  • brudgers 9 hours ago
    No. Not at all.

    My life has been made better through social media use.

    I am more connected to people who live far away. More connected to people of different backgrounds and have connections to people who I never would have met but for the ability to discover shared interests online.

    Do you know what was really detrimental to people's lives, being tied to the land by birth and laboring for the benefit of the Pharaoh, King, Lord, Brahman, Sultan, Emperor, etc. And only if you were lucky, you weren't killed in some dumb war, by famine, or just for shits and giggles. Good luck.

    • julienreszka 56 minutes ago
      Really? Or are you ironic? Can't tell
  • krapp 6 hours ago
    I do regret using my government name or some version of it on so many accounts.
  • tmpsvc2695f5 31 minutes ago
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