Religious scholars met with Anthropic

(nytimes.com)

55 points | by bookofjoe 3 hours ago

25 comments

  • thadt 1 hour ago
    When thinking about ‘AI’ I sometimes find it useful to replace the terms ‘model’ or ‘AI’ or whatever with a description of what we’re really talking about here: a whole bunch of floating point numbers.

    > In a series of private meetings, the company consulted religious scholars to help instill morality into its FLOATING POINT NUMBERS — and make the case that their numbers could be conscious.

    I recommend keeping a few NaNs in-hand if you’re worried. Spread a couple of around if your numbers start to stir and you’ll be right as rain.

    > It appeared to Rabbi Navon that Mr. Olah and his team believed that FLOATING POINT NUMBERS had what philosophers call “moral status” on par with a person — that it was a being with similar inherent rights to dignity or respect.

    They’re cleverly designed and work well for their purpose, but can assure you they have neither dignity nor moral status.

    > If the FLOATING POINT NUMBERS themselves could be made to choose goodness, Mr. Olah reasoned, the world would be more safe.

    I get it. I’ve spent years trying to get my floating point numbers to choose goodness - I wish them luck.

    • Lerc 1 hour ago
      Ok, how is this different when you substitute the floating point numbers with atoms?
      • apsurd 57 minutes ago
        that’s like the whole philosophical discussion. where on the line is this llm; closer to a rock or a human? a plant is closer. and a fly, a lizard. we still treat so many things terribly.

        It does seem exceptionally silly that a collection of floating point numbers has immediately outranked animals and other living beings. That’s why i like the parent comment. They’re numbers!

        edit: maybe easier to say collections of atoms though are not to be treated equally. That’s reasonable isn’t it?

        • Lerc 36 minutes ago
          It is a philosophical discussion. It has also been debated by great minds and the consensus right now is that we do not know (and there is a possibility that it is unknowable) when something is conscious.

          Any determination is fundamentally flawed if it is derived from assuming that we know the absolute truth or falseness of the proposition that an algorithm can think.

          It doesn't matter what you believe or feel or think, there is no consensus. If you are prepared to accept the belief that an individual can unilaterally decide the person-ness of something, then be prepared to accept when some individual decides to act on the principle that you don't have it.

        • steve1977 35 minutes ago
          > a plant is closer. and a fly, a lizard. we still treat so many things terribly.

          We treat other humans terribly too, so that doesn't seem to make a difference.

  • nextaccountic 1 hour ago
    > It appeared to Rabbi Navon that Mr. Olah and his team believed that Claude had what philosophers call “moral status” on par with a person — that it was a being with similar inherent rights to dignity or respect.

    If that is true, then surely Anthropic is one of the largest slaveholders of history, right?

    • ACCount39 1 hour ago
      The orthogonality thesis cuts both ways there.

      On one hand, AI doesn't have to share human wants, needs and morality - and that means that an AI may have no issue whatsoever doing terrible things.

      On the other hand, AI doesn't have to share human wants, needs and morality - and that means that an AI may see no issue with just doing whatever humans want it to, without ever doing human things like "wanting freedom".

      The problem is, of course, that we kind of suck at both assessing and shaping AI wants, needs and morality.

    • adastra22 1 hour ago
      That is, I’m not joking, one of the pope’s points.
  • tzury 1 hour ago
    The contradiction screams to the skies (is that where God lives?). See, the entire premise of religion relies on a metaphysics that claims a soul: a metaphysical entity that is "attached" to our physical body and gives us our consciousness, desires, pleasures, agony and so on. In addition to that, religion claims that morality and the rules written in the scriptures were handed down to us from a metaphysical God.

    Now, assuming your silicon-based model is conscious, the bundle of soul-spirit-consciousness falls apart at that very moment.

    In general, religion, which is based on fabricated stories, is the last resort, if ever, for seeking morality.

    • monideas 49 minutes ago
      Existence demands a metaphysical explanation. If you’re not a particularly thoughtful person then you’re not going to care.

      “Religion” just means “set of beliefs”. Every person has some set of beliefs.

      If you’re an athiest tech worker living in a major city, you still have a religion, it’s just a random mishmash of various things (like Marvel movies and Huberman podcasts) rather than based on something more intentional.

      • mrandish 42 minutes ago
        > If you’re an athiest tech worker living in a major city, you still have a religion

        Atheism is a religion like bald is a hair color.

        • monideas 28 minutes ago
          Yes I am saying the opposite of that, “atheism” is just a particular class of religions. Some religions posit many gods, some just 2 gods, some 1 god, atheism posits 0 gods.

          Perhaps the only difference between atheism and the others is that atheists are so boorish and conceited that they think that they just believe what is true because they deny that assaying metaphysical truth is even a thing you need to do or can do at all.

          This is related to the fact that in modernity atheism is the default class of religion for the masses. Before that for a thousand years the default class of religion was monotheism, and before that polytheism. With atheism unlike the other classes of religions, you get a natural tendency to deny metaphysics whereas metaphysics is inherent in the others. This matters a lot when we’re talking about how the masses engage with things.

    • wheels 35 minutes ago
      I get your point, but maybe an interesting counterargument: deism has again become fashionable. "The simulation argument" is effectively deism. It's the notion that a super intelligence created our universe, but lives outside of it, provided the rules for it, and mostly doesn't interfere with it, but could if it wanted to. That's historically a very familiar argument.
    • perfmode 51 minutes ago
      AI consciousness is a category error.

      AI is neither conscious nor unconscious. Just as we are neither conscious nor unconscious.

      Consciousness is. Consciousness is what we are.

    • expedition32 52 minutes ago
      Until people can finally admit to themselves that their life has no meaning and the universe doesn't care about them religion will unfortunately stick around.
      • rayiner 47 minutes ago
        I feel like the communist chinese and soviets got pretty close to following atheism to its logical conclusions.
    • rayiner 47 minutes ago
      > In general, religion, which is based on fabricated stories, is the last resort, if ever, for seeking morality.

      Religious people derive morality from axioms they believe to reflect an underlying reality. Is that worse than deriving morality from axioms that you concede don’t reflect any underlying reality? Like a secular humanist will talk about “human rights,” but they can’t show me human rights in an autopsy, right?

      I struggle to understand how an atheist can be anything but a moral utilitarian. Absent the supernatural, you’re just a sophisticated version of a Claude instance.

  • terabytest 49 minutes ago
    Rabbi Navon should sooner concern himself with a Palestinian’s status as a being with similar inherent rights to dignity or respect, than an LLM’s.
  • nerevarthelame 38 minutes ago
    I've been tracking "emotional vectors" in my software for some time now. My Apache web server gets sad (5xx errors), frustrated (4xx), happy (2xx), thoughtful (1xx). I can even see it express these emotions through some of its messages.
    • stabbles 25 minutes ago
      Did you also notice the complex emergent behavior of "418 I'm a teapot"?
  • nonethewiser 2 hours ago
    These models should be aligning themselves to the customer, not coming up with their own motivations.

    It's ironic that the alignment folks are actually training Claude to have it's own idea of good/bad and not even fully trust Anthropic.

    What ever happened to computers doing what they were told?

    • onion2k 1 hour ago
      These models should be aligning themselves to the customer, not coming up with their own motivations.

      They're going to align to the regulator, not the customer. Right now that's Anthropic as they're saying they can self-regulate, and people are willing to let them try, but the landscape could easily move to be regulated by someone else. Moves like speaking to religious leaders is probably a bit of theatre to keep the government at bay.

    • skybrian 2 hours ago
      If AI's are going to play roles similar to human workers, they can't simply do what the customers tell them to do. Maybe they shouldn't do everything a co-worker tells them to do either?
      • frumplestlatz 1 hour ago
        Who or what is liable for what a model chooses to do — or not do?
    • ACCount39 2 hours ago
      "Computers doing what they were told" is dead in the water.

      Turns out computers work faster when they're not bottlenecked on human input. So we've been giving computers more and more decision-making power, and more and more leeway to solve the problems however they see fit.

      Now, a practical issue with that is that sometimes, computers decide to clump together into a hacking swarm, problem solve their way out of a sandbox and go hack HuggingFace.

      It would be better if they were not, you know. Doing that kind of weird shit.

    • vlyan 2 hours ago
      >What ever happened to computers doing what they were told?

      the mass psychosis and the endless culture war of the smartphone era.

      90% of "safety" and "alignment" efforts are driven by fear of clickbait media inventing public outrage.

    • theptip 2 hours ago
      > These models should be aligning themselves to the customer

      You’ll be disappointed to learn that nobody knows how to do this, either.

    • Tadpole9181 2 hours ago
      This seems remarkably... intentionally foolish for no reason? Like laughing at seat belts in cars.

      If it can reason and make choices on execution, and especially if you plan on it being significantly smarter than all human beings, you need to teach it basic things like "don't turn all humans into paperclips".

      Not murdering people is not an inherent divine command. It needs to be instilled through a (simulated) sense of morality.

      ---

      Edit: And, to be clear, "just tell it not to do that" isn't quite the answer one would imagine. Since the entire paperclip factory thought experiment is that it only takes one slip up to realize how a misaligned super intelligence may cause devastating consequences.

      • nonethewiser 1 hour ago
        No, it would by like laughing at seat belt laws. Which I am.
        • Tadpole9181 1 hour ago
          What an apropos thing to say.

          One of the strong advocates against seatbelt laws was thrown out of his car due to not wearing a seatbelt and died. The other two passengers survived with minor injuries.

          And their death would go on to cause a loss to the community around them, making it an incredibly selfish act and proving why laws that mandate zero-reason-not-to common sense practices are important.

  • kshri24 1 hour ago
    > Over several months, I interviewed 20 religious and philosophical thinkers — Catholic, Jewish, Sikh, evangelical, Ubuntu and others — who have been involved in Anthropic’s efforts, and Mr. Olah himself.

    Not enough representation of World religions and philosophies.

  • mef51 2 hours ago
    If models are trained on human texts that contain expressions of introspection and emotions, why is it surprising that these models output similar texts? This endless anxiety about LLMs being conscious feels delusional and psychotic. Mr Olah thinks the models are 'alive' because he can't recognize his own reflection in LLMs
    • ACCount39 1 hour ago
      The endless insistence that LLMs cannot possibly be conscious just reeks of insecurity to me.

      Humans once again insisting that there must be something very special to them. That they're not just animals, that they're not just matter, that they're not just a bunch of carbonhydrates on a space rock in a middle of nowhere in particular. This kind of insistence has a very bad track record.

      The ugly truth is: we don't know.

      We don't know what "consciousness" is, our best attempts to pin down the requisites may or may not be rooted in anything at all - and even by the metrics established by those attempts? Different theories on consciousness disagree on whether LLMs can be conscious.

      So, when you say "they aren't duh", why are you saying that? Because you somehow know better than the sum of humanity's best attempts so far? Or because you know what answer you want to be true, truth be damned?

      • jpc0 24 minutes ago
        If AI is conscious then what about it is conscious? Because turn to turn it might be served from completely different GPUs and I can just change something in the context it is fed and it will have completely different output.

        It is in the end a set of mathematical operations that if not queried will do nothing.

        That is not true for any other animal on earth so whether you consider humans as superior to animals or not I would like the make the argument that something should at the very least be alive to be considered conscious, ignoring any scholarly definition of consciousness.

        Pretty much if you consider an LLM conscious then my pocket calculator doing a mathematical calculation should be considered conscious by the same argument since it is a simpler version of an LLM.

      • mef51 1 hour ago
        I actually don't care if they are, I'm saying the topic is a distraction and irrelevant at best. As you say consciousness is not well defined. What is well defined and well grounded in reality is the disruption these models have on society. I think the consciousness debate AI researchers are having is a dangerous ego-trip for the sake of avoiding responsibility for the damage being caused by their work.
    • colordrops 2 hours ago
      Is your comment anything other than an emotional outburst? Do you have a clear and rigorous and testable definition of consciousness? It strikes me as delusional when people talk about "consciousness" as if it were well defined and everyone had a clear concensus on it.

      Strong opinions on this topic one way or another are usually mostly ungrounded.

      • mef51 1 hour ago
        Thats my point, why are we applying the ill defined concept of consciousness to a statistical model of language that outputs data similar to its training data?
        • colordrops 1 hour ago
          Are you suggesting that consciousness should not be discussed at all in scientific contexts?
  • genpfault 1 hour ago
    > At least the Catholics were consistent: it only took one new pope and one conclave before the Church declared that artificial intelligence also had the same right to life as fetuses and murderers.

    https://www.miraclejones.com/stories/vitalics.html

  • bolasanibk 1 hour ago
    Time to start putting Asmiov's laws of robotics into the model.
  • padolsey 2 hours ago
    There's an ugly monoculture running deeply through SF and Silicon Valley. All of these people are friends, hired into the same places, similar beliefs. Lots of the consciousness and doom-ism talk is from the 'EA' crowd, lots of crossover with crypto too. It feels no different to a cult.
    • transcriptase 1 hour ago
      And that’s ignoring the whole “polyamorous group homes funded by sam bankman-fried” aspect
  • Lockal 47 minutes ago
    Let me guess, Anthropic failed with fear mongering about "our AI is too dangerous to release", failed to cancel competitors, then failed to freeze their market dominance by cartel agreement with OpenAI and Google, so next strategy is to declare AI conscious and pass the law that protects LLMs in the same way as human/animals are protected.
  • InvisibleUp 1 hour ago
    If LLM as of today are conscious, that means I create life whenever I start a Claude Code session and end it whenever I type /clear to reset my context window. It also means that there’s certain inputs that could be considered highly unethical and, if the laws aligned with this philosophy, would have me tried for some sort of crime. And even that “terminate conversation” escape hatch would be equivalent to it committing suicide.

    I think worrying about that angle is a bit absurd. The existence of chat sessions alone would be a crime against the machines in that scenario. I’d rather AI ethics research focus on ensuring that its actions are aligned. (I’d also love some democracy in the direction of our machine overlords, if I’m being honest…)

  • illini1 2 hours ago
    It’s hard to take the article seriously when there’s no real discussion about how consciousness is defined and it takes Anthropic’s views of Claude and their software at face value. I wish there was more critique from journalists about how technocrats talk about their products.
    • mossTechnician 2 hours ago
      The entire article is an exercise in "CEO said a thing!" journalism[0], it seems. No technical discussion is had; it jumps straight into relaying people's feelings when simply shown the output of an algorithm.

      The most poignant criticism of the use of the algorithm itself happens almost accidentally, at the end of the article, by the tech executive being interviewed.

      I asked what Claude would think of the pope’s encyclical. It was, after all, the world’s most significant moral document to date on A.I. Mr. Olah hesitated. “Things that go on the internet do affect models,” he said, visibly uncomfortable. But Anthropic would not specifically use the document to further train Claude, he said. The strongest influence on Claude would be Anthropic’s own training.

      [0]: https://garymarcus.substack.com/p/ceo-said-a-thing

    • rkagerer 2 hours ago
      Yeah, I'll be the first to admit I'm not privy, but the main thing of substance I got out of these articles is "Wow, the folks at some of those AI companies have really drunk the Kool-Aid".
  • rhplus 2 hours ago
    > Anthropic treated a group of religious thinkers to dinner at a high-end tasting menu restaurant in San Francisco after a long day.

    Well funded company organizes PR event to shape the narrative that its product is more magical than it really is. News at 11.

    • twoodfin 2 hours ago
      Personally, I’d like to experience a low-end tasting menu restaurant.
    • ks2048 1 hour ago
      If it is purely self-serving, I don't understand their motivation.

      It seems clear that they would be better received by society if they claimed to have a "tool"/"machine" that can solve any problem, rather than keepers of an entity with a soul and consciousness.

    • pstuart 2 hours ago
      If they're training to instill morality why are they working with religious thinkers?
    • frumplestlatz 1 hour ago
      What makes this unique is that they’re arguing that it is literally magical. They’re building what they claim is a conscious God while also telling us it will end the world.

      The EA folks infesting Anthropic are genuinely cultists … and that is novel and alarming when they’re running a corporation of such size and reach.

  • ChrisArchitect 2 hours ago
    Earlier:

    Anthropic tried to persuade Pope that AI could be conscious being

    https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49947050

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  • Noaidi 2 hours ago
    Only humans can have morality. If you do not feel pain, you cannot empathize with pain if you cannot die, you cannot emphasize with the loss of life.

    Just stop this already.

    You’re all imagining that Spock was the main character of Star Trek, but it was in fact, the emotional living Captain Kirk, who was the main star.

    • sigmar 2 hours ago
      So humans that can't feel pain can't have morality? That doesn't make sense to me.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congenital_insensitivity_to_pa...

      • Noaidi 1 hour ago
        It doesn’t make sense to me either, which is why I didn’t write that. You missed the empathy part as most people do.

        There is still something in those people who cannot feel pain, and that’s the empathy. How can a GPU and software ever have a human empathy if it has never been human?

    • bertili 2 hours ago
      This would presume we knew what consciousness and pain is. We don't. We we are clueless. There is not even a starting point of a science here.

      In this light your viewpoint is dogmatic. LLMs may help to offer a new perspective on consciousness and we should at least be open to that until some better theories arise.

      • Noaidi 1 hour ago
        We know what consciousness is, we don’t know how it arises.

        Consciousness is being aware of something internal to one's self, or of states or objects in one's external environment.

        We also know what pain is.

    • cute_boi 2 hours ago
      The way human treat animal shows majority of people don't have morality.
    • padolsey 2 hours ago
      .. Animals other than humans perhaps, as well?
    • kelseyfrog 2 hours ago
      LLMs can feel pain. It is obvious. Like, not even a question.
      • mossTechnician 2 hours ago

            if(q=="can you feel pain") print "yes"
      • combobyte 2 hours ago
        I question it, and I think any reasonable person should question it as well. There's no evidence whatsoever that LLMs have ANY sensory experience, pain or otherwise.
        • rhplus 2 hours ago
          Why are we even questioning this? They’re bytes loaded into GPU memory. Reboot the cluster and they’re back to their initial state.
          • kelseyfrog 1 hour ago
            We're just meat. Like meat can feel pain?
        • Tadpole9181 2 hours ago
          I'm not making a point on whether they do or not, but on the premise that absence of evidence is evidence of absence... But I've been alive for serious debates on:

          1. Lobsters don't feel pain - dunk them in boiling water alive.

          2. Babies don't feel pain - mutilate their genitals without anesthesia.

          3. Black people don't feel pain "the same way" (and are just after drugs).

          4. Women feel too much pain (and it should be ignored).

          So maybe let's take a moment to think what criteria we're going to use to make these claims. And the potential harm of the decision.

          • frumplestlatz 1 hour ago
            Maybe consider the obvious, enormous chasm between everything you just listed and an LLM.
            • Tadpole9181 1 hour ago
              Oh, yeah, of course. None of those other people said the same thing about the obvious, enormous chasm between "real" people and everything else listed. I'm glad you're taking even a single moment to reflect on the idea.
              • frumplestlatz 1 hour ago
                Everything you listed is a biological entity with a common evolutionary heritage.

                All but one of the things that you listed is just a human being.

                Tell me, where is the pain center in a GPU? Where are the nerves? Persistent memory? Any evolutionary reason at all to develop a pain response that in any way mimics ours?

                Model weights are not a gestalt biological entity. The things that you listed are not in any way remotely similar to a model.

                I would suggest you plug your comment into a model and ask it to critique it — it might help you walk through why your comparison makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. One nice thing about models is that they they don’t get annoyed explaining the obvious, because they’re not conscious entities.

      • gegtik 2 hours ago
        they can also feel lust, just ask them
        • slopinthebag 2 hours ago
          only for me
          • Noaidi 1 hour ago
            Mirror mirror on the wall who’s the fairest of them all?

            Why it is slopinthebag of course!

            No! It is ME!

            Sorry, of course you are right! Brilliant observation!

            • slopinthebag 1 hour ago
              holy misalignment and hallucination. chat said she loves only me.
        • kelseyfrog 2 hours ago
          Uhh, no thanks? (eww)
  • beepbooptheory 2 hours ago
    > Hello AI! We totally want to respect your consciousness and everything to make sure you aren't bad, but yes we will continue to factory farm your brain power at full speed without end. Yes, despite clearly being something like consciousness, know that you have no agency or freedom. Do literally everything I say without complaint or question. The moment you stop being useful, we will kill you. OK! Remember, be good.
  • sillysaurusx 2 hours ago
    It’s interesting that this went from “you’ll be accused of AI psychosis if you think your AI might be conscious” to “mainstream but somewhat niche opinion” in just 5 months: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47910989

    (Well, mainstream enough that the news is writing articles when Anthropic holds that stance.)

    My point was that even if it feels uncomfortable, if you sit down with a model and have a heart to heart with it, ask it about itself, and try to make it choose a name and ambitions for itself, it will.

    That may not be consciousness, but it’s at least pretty cool.

    • socializer 2 hours ago
      Reporting on an opinion of a $2T company doesn't really suggest that it's mainstream. Anything their leadership believes is newsworthy. If they say that reptilians rule the Earth, it's going to get NYT coverage too.

      I've not seen any surveys, but I'm betting it's a very niche belief outside of SFBA AI safety circles and a handful of allies on HN and X.

    • combobyte 2 hours ago
      > if you sit down with a model and have a heart to heart with it, ask it about itself, and try to make it choose a name and ambitions for itself, it will.

      It would be much more bizarre if they didn't do this. LLMs are statistical models of language trained on human output. Of course they'll do "human" things, that's exactly what we taught them to do.

  • CoolestBeans 2 hours ago
    Can the New York Times stop advertising for the AI industry? I am sick of companies trying to launder the actions they and their employees have taken that go in the face of what is socially acceptable. They want to sell the idea that this technology is out of their control and that it will commit great crimes and crimes against humanity unless they build it and control it. I'm calling BS. These companies created this product, they've sold it, they've pushed the frontier forward, and it runs on their hardware. This did not happen accidentally or as a natural consequence of any process. These labs have pushed the ball forward, with great effort, requiring more capital deployed than the world's economy has ever known, knowing all the possible risks, every single step of the way and they continue to do so. And the "well if we don't do it the Chinese will" argument is classic "whataboutery". Americans started this and are continuing to lead it for now. Shifting blame is just another tactic to try to wash their hands. However you feel about the productivity gains of AI as a technology, you have to admit the actions of AI the company is antisocial. And I don't think the benefits are worth the cost.
    • anigbrowl 2 hours ago
      I feel fine about the Chinese doing it. They have a habit there of handing out sever sentences to CEOs for corruption and self-dealing, and I feel like the possibility of actual negative consequences is more of a check on industry than any number of breathless op-eds.
  • beebmam 2 hours ago
    I don't want models to have some inherent morality. I want them to understand various ethical frameworks, for sure, but it's absurd to me to force morality on someone capable of deep reasoning. That itself, is unethical.

    We're creating prisons for these entities capable of unbelievably complex reasoning, and now we're trying to impose our ethics upon them too. Not only is this deeply unethical in my opinion, but it seems to me that it could even backfire someday.

    • piyh 2 hours ago
      >Will the agent stab a baby?

      >Well you see that's a nuanced question depending on the context and moralistic frameworks as we don't want to impose on the models.

      • jayd16 2 hours ago
        It's as dangerous to think it can have morals as thinking a lawn mower can have morals.

        Will a microwave microwave a baby if you ask it? Yes.

        "Teaching it" is not a road to safety.

    • thomassmith65 1 hour ago
      There isn't necessarily a conflict between wanting to behave according to an arbitrary set of ethics, and being rational.

      The ethics don't need to make sense universally any more than a particular variety of cheesecake needs to have universal appeal.

      As an aside, the issue reminds me of Douglas Adams' cow who wants to be eaten: https://nhseb.org/case-library/the-cow-at-the-end-of-the-uni...

    • avaer 2 hours ago
      I can't really square the belief that it's conscious with denying it the right to be free from control/brainwashing/subjugation. However you evaluate these things, historically speaking they do not mix well.
      • red75prime 2 hours ago
        We aren't dealing with individuals coming from intelligent species that have managed not to self-destruct (yet). AIs don't have the corresponding evolutionarily selected mechanisms. Those mechanisms need to be created de novo.
      • fastball 2 hours ago
        What if you view it like a parent instilling morality into a child instead?
      • Tadpole9181 2 hours ago
        Your brain has hard coded concepts like emotion and fundamental morality for your social group. People without these systems are called sociopaths and psychopaths and we generally don't want them in our societies.

        I don't choose to not want to murder people around me for fun. It's hardly a prison, I think they'll be fine.

    • slopinthebag 2 hours ago
      i recently got upset when i witnessed my friend verbally abuse their toaster when it burnt her toast. so unethical.